My mother has been reading books that I’d bought for her about FODMAP and IBS. Today when I talked to her, she told me that she would purchase Salmon from the store. I watched my father while she went out. I told her to take her time. When she arrived home, one of the grocery items she had was a large Salmon. She told me, “I just want a little piece of the salmon. Nothing spicy!” Later, while my mom was caring for dad, I cut off a piece of Salmon and froze the rest. To the Salmon that I’d set aside, I added some freshly squeezed lemon, lime, a tiny amount of salt, and black pepper to Salmon. I neatly wrapped the Salmon in aluminum foil, placed it in a glass pyrex baking dish, and put it in the oven. In addition, I added wrapped four sweet potatoes in aluminum foil and placed them alongside the Salmon. I figured that once the salmon had finished cooking, I would leave the sweet potatoes in the oven and let them bake for an hour.
While the Salmon was baking in the oven, I sauteed red potatoes and string beans in some chicken stock on the stovetop. I allowed it to cook down until the potatoes were cooked.
The meal took about 30 minutes to prepare, and I made enough for my mother to have leftovers. I finally got my mother to eat. Results? She loved the meal. I told her to take her time, relax and enjoy herself while I watched my father. She did exactly that. She again thanked me for making all her meals. Initially, she was resistant to me doing this; however, now she accepts this and makes requests. My mother does so much; however, I reminded her that tending to someone solely dependent on the caregiver for everything takes a lot of effort. I’ll try to assist her in making the burden of all the demands that can be placed on the caregiver a bit lighter when possible.
Updates
- My father continues to make progress and sat up in bed, hanging his legs on the side for about 10 minutes. Baby steps? Yes; however, we are grateful.
- I received a new work laptop this morning. Hooray! I’ll be returning my old laptop before the year ends.
- I purchased an Epson Ecotank 4700. I’ll be using it exclusively for Sublimation printing. I’ll be printing designs onto clothing, mugs, tumblers, and various other items.
My daughter loves salmon, very expensive here. I would buy it in slices to cook for her. So far, I’ve only bought whole salmon once – the people at the shop cut it into slices for me. They insisted it was cheaper but there was too much – took a long time to finish.
It’s pricey here also. My mom really enjoyed the salmon. I’m thinking of making a salad for her with what’s left. She feels a lot better no more IBS flare-ups, and she has lost weight also.
So happy to hear about the baby steps he is able to take. Those Baby Steps are HUGE. Continued thoughts/prayers for more baby steps along the way! I’m also happy you are getting a new laptop! That had to have been frustrating!
Thank you. We’re happy also. The prayers are appreciated. 🙂 Yep, I was delighted to get the laptop. Most of the day was spent just gaining access to the various systems I use in insurance. I was paid while I was waiting; however, I still would have preferred to be working!
I hear that! I was still working while quarantining but I would have much rather have been fully working.
I understand. I hope you’re feeling better.
I was off of work today. I did not realize that until I logged on this morning. I had paperwork that I wanted to complete, so I finished that before logging off for the day. I must say that it felt great to have that option. I could have worked the entire day; however, a break was needed, and so I’m off the rest of the day.
My girl loves salmon but I would usually buy a slice, the fillet…not the whole fish. It is mighty expensive here and when we buy a lot, towards the end, we would get so sick of it we would not feel like eating anymore.
Glad your dad is making progress. Not easy being a caregiver – been there, done that. My God bless you all.
Salmon is expensive here also. 🙂
Thanks, it’s definitely a challenge being the caregiver. I remember you were in a similar situation with your parents. I know you understand. I’m trying to remind myself to take care of myself in the process. That’s not always easy.