Have you ever heard the expression, “waiting for the other shoe drop?” It means that you are waiting for an event to happen that seems inevitable. With all the unexpected twists and turns that have occurred since October, I’m honestly not surprised with whatever happens. Last Monday, I told my mother that I was taken her to be seen, and I was not taking no for an answer. Since it was unexpected, I took her to Urgent Care. Four hours later, we went from Urgent Care to the Emergency Room. My mother is still in the hospital. She’s continuing to improve and hopefully will be back home, if not this week, the following week.
I’ve taken time off of work to take over the care of my father. My brother has even set up an office (temporarily) at our parent’s home so that he can assist. I must say that it’s very much appreciated that he did that for anyone that has taken care of someone wholly dependent on others for their basic needs. You know what a challenge that can be. The bulk of my father’s care has been done by myself since my mother has been in the hospital. Despite everything that has transpired, I still have a lot to be thankful for. I have a great job, boss, and company that’s willing to work with me. I have a lovely daughter, great brother, parents, and family/friends that have reached out to check on us, let us know they’re praying for us, and drop off food. Food is the one thing I don’t need since I do a lot of meal prep. However, I do take the food given since I know people sometimes want to do SOMETHING to help. It makes them feel as they’ve done something. Why would I take that away from them? I’ve been sharing it with others with the overabundance of food we received. A home-cooked meal is a welcome addition even if a family is not in crisis.
Vita-Mix Immersion Blender
Early this morning, the Vita-Mix Immersion blender was delivered to my doorstep. I already have the Vitamix Professional blender; however, I plan to use the Immersion aka Stick blender for pureeing soups directly in the pot or creating smaller-sized purees.
Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear about everyone and everything that has been going on! I know I sound like a broken record – but – continued thoughts and prayers. Do they know what is wrong with your mom? I’m so glad your brother is there for you, too! Having so much happen one after another is a lot to process and an emotional rollercoaster for sure. HUGS!
Thank you, they are appreciated and welcome! I’m happy he was here also. He’ll be back next week.
Yes, be strong, Opal! Always look on the bright side, appreciate every little blessing – those are what will keep you going. Believe that everything will pass sooner or later. God bless you, may He be with you through it all.
Thanks for the blessings; they are definitely appreciated and much needed. Looking at the bright side does keep me going. I’ve always found staying busy to be therapeutic. I’ve organized my parent’s home with my daughter’s help the past week. I have one more area to tackle, and everything in the house will be done. Their entire house is now organized.